Friendship

When I decided to write a blog several topics came to my mind but I couldn`t write more than one paragraph. May be I was trying too hard to choose a highly intellectual topic to start with. After a brainstorming session with myself I decided to write on friendship because you don’t need facts & figures or you don’t have to refer Google to write on this topic. All I need to do was just remember 5, 6 close friends think about our friendship, how its has been working so well , what made our friendship stronger by each passing days and incidents which made differences in our friendship.

No one teaches you how to make friends, television doesn`t teach it, schools don’t teach it and if you are above a certain age, our parents didn`t teach it, you only learn this by living. Friendship is something you choose to do; you don’t do it out of sense of obligation. Somewhere I read that “ Friendship is not about whom you have know the longest, who came first  and who cares the best, it`s about who came and never left ”. TRUE…!!!  I am thankful to god that I am blessed with so many golden hearted friends. In every friendship circle they have one unseen common thing which connects them to each other it could be adventure, thrill, work, money (sometimes liquor also). All my friends and I have one common thing which connects us i.e. ready to show our childish behavior whenever gets opportunities its different case that we always create that opportunity.

Friendship and love are not quite the same thing, although there is a lots of love around the friendship. I really don`t understand those type of people who don`t give respect to their friendship after rejection to their love proposal. YOU are not in love, you ARE love. There is one more question popped up long ago and still not able to answer i.e. you spent thousand good memories with your friend but single mistake could ruin your friendship. Why we give such a big importance to that single mistake?

One more thing I realized when I was in chokhi Dhani  , a awesome place to visit in jaipur I was with 18 people and still I wasn`t able to enjoy completely. At every place when we were taking snaps I was remembering my old friends only. Likeliness of certain city depends on how many good friends you have made there; you will love the small town also if you find a bunch of true friends.

Last but not the least I choose to think of friend as a very strong word, representing a very close relationship. A friend is a personal relationship. I like and admire many people who I don’t consider friends.  I don’t know whether I am exaggerating or not but I believe that friendship word must be given some importance like you can’t say mother father to every people you meet. So we must not tag everyone as a friend.

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